I'm upset and don't really know what to do.
I have just broken up with a great
girl who I think is fantastic. We had been seeing each other for around 2
months. She has dumped me.
Basically, this came about because about a week or so ago, I asked her, 'so
what's happening here, with us'. She was going on a work trip for 3 days and
I said go away and think about it. She had been what I would call a little
standoff-ish in the time we had been together but our relationship was
pretty much all ok besides this. She did go away and think and then came
back and said, ok I've thought about it - goodbye. I don't want this. See you
later'." I was pretty shocked. We had had a few minor arguments in the two
months I had been with her but nothing too outrageous. She also lives in
another state about an hours flight away. So, I then went to see her on the
weekend (two days ago) and she basically did not want to know me and
screamed at me to 'leaver her alone. Go away'. I am pretty upset and don't
really know what to do. Any advice? signed franky1, age 37
Dear Franky1,
I can understand your upset and surprise over the actions of your
girlfriend. Even though you are upset the fact of the matter is that you
found out this information early in the relationship. It could have dragged
on and hurt worse after more time had passed. The best advice I can give
you is to have your hurt feelings for a short while and then move on. Do
not pursue this woman again. She has made it clear she is no longer
interested and you should never force a relationship that is not to be.
We have some great information for
singles and people looking for a good solid relationship. Take
some time and read the information because you may find some of it very
helpful.
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Please understand
you have free will. This advice is given only in the realm of
personal growth and self-help. This is not to be considered a substitute
for therapy or professional counseling. We wish you well.
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