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Sometimes relationships get stale. Particularly if you haven't been practicing
The Art of Loving on a constant basis. People change or don't change while the world
goes on around them. One day you might wake up and find that you've grown apart.
Or you find that resentment and anger are flavoring everything that you do in your
relationship. This doesn't mean that it's time to get a divorce. We talk to
all too many men and women who have left marriages (some after decades together) because
they just didn't know what to do. They feel like strangers under the same house.
We invite you to create a new
beginning. Get to know each other again. You've
both changed since you first met and now it's time to become reacquainted.
You may need to get out of the rut and cast off some of the old baggage.
Here are some things for you to try.
Get off the merry-go-round if you think you're stuck in a rut.
You can take action to change your life today.
Forgiveness can be the key to open the door to a new future
if you are feeling angry or frustrated. Don't let your marriage be destroyed by the
accumulation of resentment. Resentment is a barrier to loving intimacy.
Revitalize your communication.
Rebuild your communication in a
positive and loving way and create new love one word at a time.
Build your new relationships with love. Rekindle your current relationship
with words from your heart. Recommended Reading: "You Are What You Say"
by Matthew Budd, MD
Read our articles Change and Grow
and What you think
and speak.
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