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Here are the top
dating mistakes that can have you wondering what you were thinking when a
relationship dissolves down the road. Read and use the dating tips and
advice for better long term relationships and a happier life.
Six dating mistakes you will want to avoid.
“I don’t want to be
alone.” Loneliness or even the thought of being alone holds relationships
together for a while. It is, however, insufficient foundation for a
healthy long term relationship.
“They complete me.”
Strong relationships are built every day with couples providing each other
with something that they are missing as an individual. On the other hand,
low self esteem or a feeling of insufficiency can cause people to think
that they are only whole and valuable with someone else. This can be
unstable in the long term.
“I can’t say ‘no.’”
If you find yourself in a position where your dating partner is
controlling your life, it may be time to reconsider. Over-control can be
a type of abuse.
convenient.” All too many relationships arise out of convenience. Yes,
it is difficult to meet people but just because you are together and
available to one another does not make it a great relationship.
“They have ulterior
motives.” People need relationships for reasons other than love. The
desperation to have someone to share the rent, take care of children,
provide entertainment or fill some other role can bring people together
for reasons other than that of seeking long term love. People have even
been known to marry or get pregnant to create a future income stream from
child-support or alimony.
“This is fun.” The
excitement of being together and feeling good can sometimes overshadow an
underlying understanding that you just aren’t compatible.
Our best dating advice
Don’t waste your
time on relationships that don’t have a future. Use your head to avoid
these dating mistakes.
Work on your own
self esteem and be the best individual you can be to then attract and
create better relationships.
recreational relationships should be with friends and not “lovers.”
Acknowledge that if
your relationship seems like a fairy tale, maybe it truly is.
Accept that what
first brought you together is probably insufficient on its own and you
need to do the work to create a better basis for a truly committed
Focus on the
principles and values that are important to you. Surround yourself with
good people who share your positive attitude. You will attract those who
think like you.
relationships are built on mutual respect, understanding and compatibility
in all key aspects of personality and life goals. Think about yourself,
them and your partner and, above all, talk honestly with your dating
partner about the important things. That way you can avoid becoming
trapped in a relationship that you later regret.
Summary dating tips and dating advice
Dating can be a lot of fun but the consequences of a bad relationship that
goes on longer than it should or breaks up after a marriage and children
can be bad. Enjoy dating for what it is and don’t take advantage of your
dating partners. Make good decisions with the future in mind and you can
have fun and meet the partner of your dreams for a lifelong, happy
Date with your head
as well as your heart!
Be compassionate as
well as passionate.
Remember love is
something you must give away to receive.
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