|How to Attract Your Ideal Mate
You can identify, find, attract, and love your ideal mate when you follow these suggestions. These methods work! These methods have been used by many hundreds of people who have taken our seminars or have worked with The Positive Way individually. Here is our free advice on what has been shown to work time and time again on how to find and attract your ideal mate. It may be free but it's really worth a fortune.
How to identify your ideal mate:
List the things in your life that are important to you. Yes, sit down and make a list. Review it several times over a period of time. Consider what you have and have not liked in your relationships to date.
Identify the characteristics of a person who shares what's important to you. Don't just think about today; think about what you will want years from now. Morals, principles, and values are the enduring foundation of ourselves. These are on top of the personality characteristics that we each have.
Evaluate your own personality and interests. You can start here and now with our free Compatibility and Interest Guide and continue, as you wish, with personality profiles such as those offered in the book Please Understand Me.
How to find your ideal mate:
Go where people that share your interests are. You cannot find anyone while you are home alone. Unless you want to be a party person for the next twenty years, don't devote all of your socializing to the bar scene. What really matters to you? Maybe you should be playing sports, going to adult education classes, joining church groups, or volunteering to meet solid, upstanding people. See Suggestions for Finding and Ideal Mate.
Network, network; network. Over two thirds of marriages result from introductions by someone you know. Join single's organizations. It's the safe way to meet people who are known by someone. You're less likely to run into a sex fiend or someone who doesn't share your sexual and life interests when they've been checked out by your friends or family.
Also see our recommended reading list for singles who are looking for a mate. Rating Internet Dating Sites