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Who's Your Ideal
There is no single answer to this question however you can make a good start and find
your own answers with this exercise:
Find a quiet time and a quiet place. Sit down with a pencil and piece of paper and
list the ten most important characteristics and/or qualities that you want in your ideal
mate. See article
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Now describe what they are like: their personality, their appearance, what they do, what
they like and don't like, and so on.
Put the list away for a while. Come back to the list and imagine what it would be
like living with this person for 20+ years. Ask yourself questions such as the
Will their good looks fade? The better question is "when" not
Would that personality trait you liked such as a strong, dominant become
How long would it be before that "free spirit" you enjoy now appear to be
What will you do when you change and grow? What will happen to the relationship?
Are your principles and values being satisfied with this person in the long term?
Why would my relationship with someone like this last for a lifetime?
Now rewrite your list of characteristics and create a new description.
Visualize this person and look for them in each new person that you meet. You
will now have a better idea of where to look. Do, however, keep an open mind.
Even the most perfectly visualized ideals are sometimes satisfied by good people in
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